Comments on: Color Me Crazy

By: Craig

Craig — Sat, 28 Mar 2009 22:53:59 +0000

This reminds me of the twink who wanted me to F-uck him… and when I told him I wasn’t interested (because I don’t like muscled twinks), he insisted I wasn’t gay – because as he said “I’m one of the hottest guys on this planet”. Not so much.

By: Greg C.

Greg C. — Thu, 26 Mar 2009 15:24:20 +0000

I think you handled that well. The other guy flew off the handle for no real reason, and choosing to ignore his response blast was probably a good thing. Otherwise, it would have added fuel to his flame.

By: homer

homer — Wed, 25 Mar 2009 18:49:18 +0000

I really hate reading someone’s Bigmusclebear profile or other personal ad and come across laundry lists of dislikes, especially the “No [racial group X or Y].” It surprises me that people can be so mean, “no hurt intended!”

By: Tony P

Tony P — Mon, 23 Mar 2009 17:26:10 +0000

You’re right, racism is still alive and well even here in the 21st century.

That said, race was never a barrier for me when it comes to attraction. A long deceased friend used to tell me I was doing the international club when I was a young one.

Skin color, accent, those didn’t make a damned bit of difference to me. If I thought you were cute/handsome then we’d be off to a good start.

But by being gay we automatically discriminate, women are a clear example. I get chatted up by women all the time so I drop the “I’m gay” thing early on. If they stick fine, just know that there isn’t any sexual attraction and you gain a loyal friend.

By: Bandit

Bandit — Mon, 23 Mar 2009 14:25:01 +0000

The online world is full of crazies! I was briefly chatting with a fellow motorcyclist and another got all indignant when I didn’t respond quick enough. Then he called my bike a name just to make himself feel superior… So it’s not just racism… It’s the other party’s inability to get immediate satisfaction, thinking they are all that.

By: cb

cb — Mon, 23 Mar 2009 13:13:40 +0000

So… What you are saying is that you don’t like black guys…

Kidding!

By: rg

rg — Mon, 23 Mar 2009 12:05:22 +0000

You were polite, he was an ass. People will find offense in anything if they’re out looking to be offended.

By: Tony (LT)

Tony (LT) — Mon, 23 Mar 2009 05:26:49 +0000

Sounds like he just needed a reason to feel okay about rejection. or he just has a chip on his shoulder. Or maybe he has suffered racism in other aspects of his life, so it’s an easy leap for him.
I don’t know. Back to “flopping it out in front of you”…

By: Lee

Lee — Mon, 23 Mar 2009 05:03:20 +0000

Yeah, the twitling apparently has issues. The problem is his and NOT you by any means.

BTW = The banners on the very top of the page are messed up. The coding shows. Dunno if it was visible on your end.

@lee ~ Its fixed. I accidentally activated an old plugin not compatible with this version of WP.