The Moby Files: v2.0

This is a hard question for me to answer. Having some significant mental (and physical) scars from my own coming-out, it is not something I often look back on fondly. That said, I’ve come a long way over the years and I wish I would have had the options most gay people have today. Q: [...]

As you know, I rarely weigh in on politics (for a reason). However, I’ve been mulling this one over for awhile now. I’m quite sure my opinion is in the minority. Well, that is why its called an opinion. Just like assholes, ever body has one. I’ve been reading a lot of the fall out [...]

This month’s WWMD is a bit heart-wrenching. One of my readers who has never commented confided in me recently. I have his permission to share his question anonymously. Q: I just found out I am HIV-positive. I’m so scared and I feel like my life is over. I feel lost and confused. What should I [...]

I’m feeling long winded today, you’ve been warned! I’m also touching on a subject I’ve beat a couple times here before. For the best sense of what I’m getting it, you should probably read the previous rant on the old blog. I’m specifically calling attention to an important distinction of the general use of the [...]

I made it back from Chicago last night in one piece. The flight home was mostly uneventful. I sat next to this straight couple. The guy happened to work for a company that supplies gear to police and fire personnel. I own a pair of their boots. He was already dozing by the time I [...]

Well, its official. I’ve become a Daddy. I was ‘adopted’ by a boy this weekend. But I’m getting ahead of myself, I’ll get to that in a bit. Warning, while not explicit, this post is also adult in nature. Click thru if you dare.

So in very uninteresting and completely mundane news, I joined realjock.com last week. I thought it might be fun to try and interact with other guys who enjoy working out. So far, I’m not that impressed. Besides being an obvious hang out for those dealing with internalized homophobia and the ever emotionally stunted “straight acting” [...]

My buddy Rob from roblog did a very cool video on the current state of political rights for the LGBT community. Not only is it very well done but it also bears sharing. Feel free to link here if you like and want to spread the word. Oh, and enjoy the movie.1 Rob referred me [...]

While there are no pics, this rant is a tinsy bit on the adult side so I figured I might give you a chance to not click thru. lol

As if the drama last night wasn’t enough, I got called a ‘crazy racist’ online today because I wasn’t attracted to a guy sexually. Not the first time and probably not the last. Here is our conversation. Him: Nice profile and pics, wanna come f*ck me? Me: Hey bud, I appreciate the offer but not [...]