Two big scandals happened today. One, I told someone I barely know a secret about myself.1 I was actually a little surprised I did. It was rather personal and I’ve only known the person a short while. However, I feel like my trust is well placed. He has a complimentry background to mine so naturally he understood me. It left me with a nice feeling. We met thru my blog and have met in person several times. Yet another affirmation of what blogging can do if you use it to your advantage.
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Scandal #2.
I talked to the flight attendant today! I know what you are thinking but no2. I’m not going there again. lol We both needed some time after our last interaction to cool down. Anyway, I texted him just to say hi and he called me a few minutes later. We had a very nice heartfelt and blunt conversation.
He is still struggling w/his current relationship but I kept out of that for the most part. He has to come to terms w/it on his own. I’ve had enough time to cool my heels so I felt pretty objective about it. My original opinion remains and I offered it. I also made it clear I would like to remain his friend. For a variety of reasons, I feel like he came into my life for a reason. I’m not sure exactly what yet but I rarely ignore my hunches. I digress. The physical connection between us did come up in the conversation. We both feel it is still too soon for us to hang out again. I will admit hearing him admit to it put a smile on my face. Mainly, it means I can trust my ability to read him. I trust heavily in my ability to read (or not read) a person. After our last interaction, I had doubts. Our chat today confirmed I wasn’t letting my own feelings get in the way.
So I’m sure your asking “what now?“. Well nothing really. He isn’t coming to visit. I’m not expecting anything from him at this point. I’m not really offering anything other than friendship either. I enjoy his conversation and similar mentality so I’m sure we’ll continue to chat. If (and that is a big if) things change w/his current fling, I might reconsider that. However, the future is a devious thing. And lets face it, I’ve never really been one to wait around for something. Patience is sooo not one of my better virtues. heehee
2 Somebody call Jerry Springer!
Your a really nice guy and I think if we look we will all find that we may have a little secret or two
Friends are good. All kinds of friends. Just like you.
“…I told someone I barely know a secret about myself.”
You told somebody about the sex-change thing?
Hey !! I want to know the little secret too dang it !
I worship the ground you walk on and hope that some day your devine shadow will fall upon me and now you tell me you have secrets ?
Secrets, mmm, telling them, double-mmmm. Mine are bound with gaffa tape and locked in the shed in the garden.
does your secret have anything to do with dressing up in women’s clothes and mouthing the words to other people’s songs??