Weekend Past & Forward

Sunday, my buddy Matthew and I tramped off to the Eagle for Beer Bust. I don’t drink beer however, it is an awesome way to socialize.1 I haven’t been in quite some time since I switched to having Friday/Saturday’s off. Now that I’m back on Sunday/Monday’s off, I’m sure to go often. I met a woofy man who promised to call. He did but is leaving town on business for two weeks. Talk about leaving me high and dry. Bastard. *g* My buddy Matt tried to play the shy coy one till I shoved him into a hottie he was eyeballing. I won’t tell you what I saw them doing later on. hehehe I think he had a good time.

Afterwards, Matt wanted to go to the Power House, I was kind over it. I did stop by but didn’t stay long. I caught a ride home w/some blog buddies wherein some drama transpired. I tend to keep the drama in my personal life as minimal as possible. However, I got a real kick out of seeing some drama go down. Made my evening. At one point, someone thru a tantrum and stormed away. I did my best not to laugh. I ended up having a nice dinner at Firewood w/Chad Fox. I haven’t seen choxie in a while and it was great to relax and catch up with him.

Later, I went for a night ride on the motorcycle. Very nice cool clear evening. Drove all over the city for about 2 hours. Really nice way to wind down the night.

So this coming weekend, 2 I’m off to Tuscon to see my buddies Frank & John from Urswine Addiction and of course homer! Apparently, homer is having a vote to see what kind of dessert to make me. (hint, vote for the pineapple) It is a short trip but I’m extremely excited. I’ve never been to Tuscon. Frank/John have promised to show me around a bit. I admire them as a couple quite a bit and am honored they offered me a place to crash.3 I’m also excited to attend one of homer‘s famous feeds. All three have been to SF and we’ve all met before. homer, Frank, and John are also friends so makes things easy as far as time constraints. I wish I could stay longer as I’ve stumbled across several other folks I wouldn’t mind seeing while I’m there. Since this was a spur of the moment trip, I’m making the best of the time I have. I’m sure the boys will all show me a good time.

1 1) It’s daylight so you can see everyone and 2) Most of the guys are sober at least for a couple hours.
2 Well, my weekend starts Sunday.
3 And they have AC! lol

Fess Up

Two big scandals happened today. One, I told someone I barely know a secret about myself.1 I was actually a little surprised I did. It was rather personal and I’ve only known the person a short while. However, I feel like my trust is well placed. He has a complimentry background to mine so naturally he understood me. It left me with a nice feeling. We met thru my blog and have met in person several times. Yet another affirmation of what blogging can do if you use it to your advantage.

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Scandal #2.
I talked to the flight attendant today! I know what you are thinking but no2. I’m not going there again. lol We both needed some time after our last interaction to cool down. Anyway, I texted him just to say hi and he called me a few minutes later. We had a very nice heartfelt and blunt conversation.

He is still struggling w/his current relationship but I kept out of that for the most part. He has to come to terms w/it on his own. I’ve had enough time to cool my heels so I felt pretty objective about it. My original opinion remains and I offered it. I also made it clear I would like to remain his friend. For a variety of reasons, I feel like he came into my life for a reason. I’m not sure exactly what yet but I rarely ignore my hunches. I digress. The physical connection between us did come up in the conversation. We both feel it is still too soon for us to hang out again. I will admit hearing him admit to it put a smile on my face. Mainly, it means I can trust my ability to read him. I trust heavily in my ability to read (or not read) a person. After our last interaction, I had doubts. Our chat today confirmed I wasn’t letting my own feelings get in the way.

So I’m sure your asking “what now?“. Well nothing really. He isn’t coming to visit. I’m not expecting anything from him at this point. I’m not really offering anything other than friendship either. I enjoy his conversation and similar mentality so I’m sure we’ll continue to chat. If (and that is a big if) things change w/his current fling, I might reconsider that. However, the future is a devious thing. And lets face it, I’ve never really been one to wait around for something. Patience is sooo not one of my better virtues. heehee

1 Yes, I still have secrets. I know that is hard to believe.
2 Somebody call Jerry Springer!

Ego-mania

I got a really nice mention on Why oh Why’s blog today. I’m always flattered when someone new finds my madness remotely interesting. In the scale of things, I don’t really think I’m all that popular. Many of my favorites get twice as much traffic as I do.

Anyway, I think it only fair to return the favor. Hop over and check him out.

Anal-who?

So the top 10 search queries people used to find my blog in the last 30 days are…

1. jason statham (yes he is still a hottie and I would worship at his phallic alter)

2. moby sf blog (duh)

3. www.mobius.name (double duh)

4. moby files (triple duh)

5. gay muscle (I’m not sure if that is meant for me or gay and muscle in general.)

6. man thong (Clueless on this one)

7. myspace hillboy8 (Blog link)

8. muscle gay (same as # 5)

9. wardrobe malfunction (doubly clueless on this one)

10. “this boy elroy” bar (He bumped off “gay working man“)

Continue reading Anal-who?

Weekend Gone

I miss my weekend. I had Friday and then Sunday/Monday off and I was happy to be lazy. I did manage to do the fraking laundry one day. Tell it on the mountain! Actually, I don’t know why I have such a mental block for doing it. I walk a block and half w/my granny cart and laptop in tow, I sit and surf the net while its churning away. I can think of worse ways to spend an afternoon.

Actually, I got quite a few things done. I needed a new travel scanner, a USB memory stick, and some minor tech gadgets. After laughing hysterically thru lunch w/my friend Matthew1, we were off to shop. He bounced around town w/me. He gets a merit badge for putting up w/my incessant need to have just the right gadget(s) for my needs. Bless him. The rest of Friday was a blur of between being a couch potato and the xbox.

Sunday, I had a date but he stood me up. I promptly blocked him on bear411. Actually, he didn’t stand me up per say. He kept emailing beforehand acting all wishy-washy. Then he had the gall to say “well I don’t know why I’m being so shy about meeting“. WTF does that mean? Translation, I’m either 1) too lazy, 2) I lied about my pics or 3) I got a better offer and just to chicken shit to say it. Whatever. Next!

The rest of the day was pretty lazy. I hung around the house being butch. I fixed two light fixtures, the shower head, and replaced all the internal workings of the toilet.2 I also cleaned off my desk. Oh yeah, fun filled, can ya tell?

As you can tell from the flood of pics, I finally got another plug-in working on the blog. Before hand, I joined flickr however, the one feature I joined for isn’t working so I’m already over it.

I was a bit of a pig today. New post coming for that. *hint*

1 He is a stage hand for a local porn company.
2 I’m so butch. Beer, pussy, foootballl. Warroof! (NOT!)